How to Tell If Cheating - Technology

How to Tell If Cheating - Technology

As I stated in my last post with the technology out there it’s virtually impossible to cheat.. I say at this point the only way you could cheat and get away with it is be cash rich, live a state away from your spouse and throw your credit cards, cell phone and laptop in the ocean…..and you would still be caught. Most people know something is wrong but avoid the truth because they can’t wrap their minds around it. I was one! That gut feeling that is always right.

If you are a Google user here is one quick trick taught on How To Tell If Cheating for you If you have your spouse’s password. (and why wouldn’t you if there was nothing to hide) Sign in and go to the top of the tool bar. There will be a little green dot with their name on it. Click it and you will see Manage History. Click on that and you will see everything they have searched for, by day, for several years. You will see patterns. Hotels, restaurants, bathhouses, nightclubs and the obvious gifts they never bought you. I have found if the person they are cheating with also has a spouse they have know where to go. I call it "Spouses in the Houses" syndrome. This means everything will have to be done cash. Get involved with all of the finances if you are not all ready.

Be on the lookout for new trends. The behaviors of one that is cheating will change....no matter how hard they try to cover it up. New clothes, new under garments, maybe a gym pass and this sudden desire to get in shape or and do not forget about the overnight business trips that start when they never happened before. Just keep your eyes open and stop being afraid of what might be.

The biggest giveaway however, and the one that always gets them caught, is the CELL PHONE! Between the line item bill and the texting that goes on it is impossible to hide it. Impossible! I found this great product that is extremely affordable, probably less than half of one of your spouse’s cheat dates that once put on their phone (while they sleep) you will know most of the facts within 24 hours. You will literally know everything. Just prepare yourself for the unbelievable. You will not recognize the person you have been with. Sorry!